DEAR ABBY: After 19 years of marriage, my father left me for a younger woman. we found out after that they had been dating for several years. They changed in together immediately after a separation, and she was profound during a porce hearing. They had a baby child 8 months later.
At each eventuality with my kids, they come together with their son and she steers a review to her life, what's going on, etc. we have attempted to be wordless and civil, though she busted my daughter's high propagandize graduation by slanderous and giggling behind me and a kids a whole event.
I am perplexing not to be a sour ex, though we have had to punch behind some nasty difference to both of them. Any suggestions on how to understanding with a miserably blended family? -- BLENDED FAMILY IN BATON ROUGE, LA.
DEAR "BLENDED" FAMILY: Yes, and greatfully don't consider we am though sympathy. The surest approach to understanding with your miserably blended family is to make a unwavering preference to get on with your life. If you're not meddlesome in what a lady has to say, get adult and pierce away. No one says we contingency listen to her prattle. Develop your possess interests and activities, and accommodate some new friends. The stronger and some-more eccentric we become, a improved off you'll be. Trust me.
DEAR ABBY: we have been in a attribute with "Anita" for 4 years. She changed in with me dual years ago and a home life has been wonderful. We are a singular couple. We have discussed marriage, though conjunction of us believes in a tradition.
I'd like to uncover Anita how most we adore her, as good as uncover others we're in a critical relationship. An rendezvous ring would be a approach to uncover it. However, a tenure "engagement" would not be accurate since we do not devise to marry.
Can we advise another pitch or even another tenure for a ring to uncover togetherness though indicating a eventuality of marriage? -- ROMANTIC IN OHIO
DEAR ROMANTIC: How about job Anita's ring a joining ring? Or give her a match with a honeyed summary engraved on a back? Or a wristwatch engraved with, "Love ya 'til a finish of time," or "... 'til time runs out." Another approach to prove to others that you're together though don't trust in "tradition" would be to reason a joining rite and entice friends.
DEAR ABBY: There is an emanate pushing a crowd between my mom and me. we have always believed that my infrequent shirts (in fact, all my shirts) should be ragged tucked into my slacks. My mom feels they should be left out. we consider we demeanour improved with them tucked in. She feels differently.
Abby, we can save a matrimony if you'll let us know who is right. To tuck, or not to tuck -- that is a question. And, by a way, she says we should discuss that we have a bodacious waistline, that means we could remove 40 pounds. -- FRIAR "TUCKED" IN LONGMONT, COLO.
DEAR "TUCKED": Your mom is your best crony and she is right. (If we doubt it, deliberate a men's haberdasher.) By withdrawal your shirt out, we would seem to be a few pounds thinner. When we tuck it in, your "bodacious" waistline is accentuated by a plane line, that creates we seem to be heavier.
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